Monday, November 14, 2011

Backpacking Vietnam

Two weeks in Vietnam
Many people have asked me why Vietnam? I say..why not Vietnam?


Vietnam is a very beautiful place and has lots of marvelous things to see that God created himself with his own two hands. There were many times I just stopped and took in a deep breath of fresh air and took in the beauty and Thanked God for his creations. What an Artist. Genesis 1:9-13
And God said, “Let the water under the sky be gathered to one place, and let dry ground appear.” And it was so. God called the dry ground “land,” and the gathered waters he called “seas.” And God saw that it was good. Then God said, “Let the land produce vegetation: seed-bearing plants and trees on the land that bear fruit with seed in it, according to their various kinds.” And it was so. The land produced vegetation: plants bearing seed according to their kinds and trees bearing fruit with seed in it according to their kinds. And God saw that it was good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the third day.






Places in Vietnam I traveled and what I saw.
We landed in Ho Chi Minh(south Vietnam) and did not stay there because it is very touristy and we wanted to stay away from the touristy/busy areas. But we learned about Ho chi Minh later. He was a famous emperor who reigned during the North Vietnam victory. His body is kept in Hanoi, the most touristy place we went to at the end of the trip. We made up a song and dance to do in front of his body but we ended up missing the "viewing." Inappropriate? Possibly. "Ho chi Minh, Ho Ho chi Mihn.” Tune done to a two-step performed by Britney, Holly and Emily.
We landed in Ho Chi Minh and flew to Danang where we met the 4th member of our backpacking party. We learned quickly that there was a Western price and a Vietnam price for everything. And we did not play games! We demanded Vietnamese prices. Our first bus ride was supposed to be 15,000 dong(Vietnamese currency) and they tried to cover the sign on the bus and tell us 50,000 dong. Why they do this? I will explain later.



We took the locals bus from Danang airport to Hoi An- This was a beautiful French Inspired town. Vietnamese houses were more beautiful than Thai houses because the French took over Vietnam for a period of time and imposed their cultures, ways of living and beliefs. I loved this town! Our hostile was very nice, the owner was very sweet and helpful and we were lucky to have arrived on the Full Moon Chinese festival. There were lanterns everywhere and boat rides with floating lights on the water. We were able to play an ancient game of luck that I happened to WIN:). We rented cute french bikes and toured the town.








We took the locals bus back to Danang the next morning to catch a Sightseeing passenger train to Hue. This was interesting. The sights were beautiful but the hole in the floor to use the restroom and Vietnamese men standing by the door the entire time was unusual but HEY I had a lot of firsts on this trip! I met 3 Amazing people. 2 Australian men and also a woman from New Zealand that was volunteering in Vietnam in the medical field. One of the coolest people I have ever met. She had once lived in a small village in Africa before Vietnam and is a Doctor who volunteers and gives aid to those that cannot afford it and needs it the most. Talk about living the life of a servant like Christ calls us to do!

Hue was a very educational experience. We were able to not only hear about the Vietnam War as we do while sitting in classrooms in America but we were able to walk where they walked and see some life changing things. We went on the DMZ demilitarized tour where we got to walk in the only building still standing from the war which was the Catholic Church. Because it was a church it was considered off limits, although bullet holes were throughout the entire church. We traveled the road that was 3 body levels high in corpse. We saw the “awaiting mother and child” statue made in honor of the men that crossed the bridge and never returned. I was able to stand with one foot on the South and one foot on the North of Vietnam. There were years of fighting between the two because of the Northern Vietnamese communist views and the southern Vietnamese refusal to follow though views. Hints the Vietnam War. After hearing from both American Vietnam survivors and Vietnamese survivors I am so sad for those involved in the War, the family members of those in the War and the innocent bystanders. Many American soldiers’ lives were drastically changed because they were sent to give aid but not prepared with medical equipment or medication and had to see hundreds suffer and die. Overall I learned how sad War is. Not just for Americans but also for those on the opposing side. I feel that war should be a last option and only if we are attacked on our own soil. We went through one of the main underground living tunnels the North lived in for 5 years. You can barely breathe down there and you can’t stand up fully. Babies were made, delivered and lived up to 3 or 4. They saw light and
the outside finally about age 4.
But I say, do not resist an evil person! If someone slaps you on the right cheek, offer the other cheek also. Matthew 5:39







We moved to Phong Nha where we stayed at a farm stay…the most beautiful sights and so natural. In the front of our dorm were watered down rice patties where the farmers led the ox to stomp the patties. We lived near a village that had seen Westerners for the first time only a few years prior. It was the first hostel that we had bug nets. We had sleeping buddies every night. And the dorm was different because we all stayed together with people we had never met. It was wonderful, you are able to meet such cool people and hear where they have gone already. When we did our Jeep tour the children would run out of the huts and chase our Jeeps waving. We had a very interesting experience. Holly and I decided the second day to go find the one and only school in the village and find the one and only place to eat. After walking miles and seeing beautiful sights we ran into teenage Vietnamese boys that were obsessed and followed us and ate by us. A. we were served dog but did not eat it.. B. The boys only knew how to say “I love you” and “I want kiss”…needless to say it was a funny lunch. We found the school and were able to meet the kids and have the teachers beg us to move their to teach..
We took a Jeep tour to see the caves and trekked through the mountains. Paradise cave was by far the most beautiful cave we got to see. It literally looked like a piece of Heaven under the ground. We were able to see Highway20 where the Vietnamese worked on the highway constantly while bombing took place and many were killed. The younger men always volunteered and as they fixed the road, the road was destroyed again. Many died working on either the road or the tunnels.





Double decker sleeper bus to Ninh Binh-
We are sitting waiting on the bus and Holly says, “Hey aren’t these things really unsafe? And its pouring rain and storming.” We turn and a motorbike driver falls and slides down the road and the passenger goes flying off the bike..Uneasy night to say the least.
In the beds on the sleeper bus Holly and I got the middle beds with no windows to protect us from flying out of the beds. We wrecked twice. The first time someone hit us and the second time we hit someone else. How are you supposed to sleep like this? PRAYERS for safety for sure.
We drove for 7 to 8 hours with NO bathrooms. Watching the people jump off the bus and wondering why, changed to ME jumping off the bus and on the sidewalk, behind a sign became just like all of the other Vietnamese lol.
We took a motorbike tour through the town and it was marvelous! We went trekking up the mountain to the highest point and also got to ride through the rivers and into the caves. We literally had to lie in the boat in order to not hit our heads and I have NO idea how the tour guide knew where to paddle because it was so dark.


About this time I am dying. I needed sleep. If we slept at all at night it was maybe 4 hours. Our only time for sleep was usually when we were on a bus going from point A or point B and that would mean you had to sit up straight, crammed with 30 others in a 15 passenger bus and try to sleep. They tried to fit as many people as possible in small areas. We went to Halong bay next. We stayed on the Bay in a boat overnight. Holly and I got put in a crew room and actually got locked inside the room. We thought we were going to have to break the window, jump out and swim to the back of the boat and get back on board. Praise GOD someone heard us yelling. We laughed for hours. Halong Bay was magical. Being on the boat surrounded by houses that floated (people lived on the water in legit houses) and kayaking on the Bay through caves and jumping off of the boat were only some of the things we got to do.


Our last place was Hanoi. I did not care for it simply because it was so touristy and there were SO many people it was too much like Bangkok big city life and we wanted to get away for a while. We met up with two Vietnamese locals and they showed us the first University which Confucius had visited. And we were able to learn about many Vietnamese myths. We stayed at the coolest hostel by far!
Overall, the Vietnam people are very pitiful and sad. The poverty is worse in Vietnam than in Thailand. The Vietnamese people have always had to fight to just defend themselves and their land. They were taken over by or attacked by the French, Chinese, Americans and even by each other (Civil Wars). They are very intense when selling things and even in the way they speak because they literally will not be able to eat if they do not sell at their stands. It was very sad to see all of the War victims without limbs and facial features. A lot were affected later in life while plowing fields and stepped on and activated a bomb. The Thai people always smile even when upset but the Vietnamese are true people that let their emotions show on their faces and through their words. There like has always been a struggle and they have never had true freedom.
Jesus loves the little Children of the World. Red and yellow, black and white they are precious in his sight.



CHANG MAI- Northern Thailand
We left Vietnam and went to Northern Thailand. Mountainous and beautiful Northern Thailand..we rented motorbikes and took about an hour drive up the mountain to one of the famous temples and also visited the villages further up the mountain.
We went white water rafting and I learned how to drive an ATV and went on the tour. White water rafting with a Thai man that called himself “Johnny Depp” was interesting. That joker pushed me in the water through a current and I HIT a rock and thought I was going to die. He pulled me in the boat and said he “caught a fish.” He later confessed his love for me and told me he would “love me long time and to sit in his heart”..?
We were able to eat at a place that helped and gave all the money they raised to Burmese Refugees. Most importantly we volunteered at Agape orphanage ran by Mrs. Avis Rideout. An orphanage that takes in orphaned street kids with HIV that have lost their parents to AIDS. This blog has already ben posed titled “Agape in Chang Mai.”


Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Agape in Chang Mai


                                                           birthday party-ice cream time


                                                              Sad, but very true.

                                             Teaching English to the upper level grades
                                          Teaching the preschool and K-garten age group
                                               They were screaming Thank You haha
Agape meaning: Used in the "love chapter" in 1 Corinthians 13 describing the love of the Father. This love is unconditional and supernatural, unlike any other love.
Could there be a more adequate or fitting name for such an organization?
This organization was started 35 years ago by a woman named Avis Rideout and her husband Roy Rideout. This facilities mission is to take in orphaned children that are HIV positive that have lost their parent or parents to AID's already. The reasoning behind the generational curse of this disease takes many forms but all forms leave these beautiful and innocent children completely helpless. Whether it was that their mother was born into a lifestyle of sex trade and acquired AID's in the process, or that the mother was a victim of rape or even that their Grand-parents had the disease and it has simply been passed generation to generation.
Mrs. Avis assumed the missionary position and status when she accepted the call to move to Chang Mai, Thailand to open this facility. The hardest part for us humans who want to give into the flesh daily, is to give up a life of materialism and ease and move outside of our comfort zones to accept the calling.
Sadly, Mr. and Mrs. Avis have seen many lives lost and had to endure heartache. As we know this disease does not offer much Hope. The first couple of years there was a struggle to get medication for HIV positive children from the U.S to Chang Mai Thailand. 61 children were lost in the process. 61 beautiful children grew into sickly teenagers, young adults and sometimes if lucky adults but did not see past a young age.
Agape now has the medication for HIV patients but it is only given in adult sized portions. The children are given half the amount and this was something the nurses on staff had to play with and this causes vomiting and such.
The children are JUST like any other children but in my opinion more beautiful and shine unlike any other children in the World.
There are only 6 children that are not HIV positive and they are mixed in with the rest of the children. This teaches the children that we are all alike and loved unconditionally by God. Jesus died for all NOT some!
The children go to school at the orphanage for pre-school and Kindergarten and then they are able to go to the public school system. This is WONDERFUL for the children because they do not have to feel like aliens!
On the weekends activities are set up and adventures are taken:)

We had the privilege to be able to come in and hear about the mission, meet the beautiful lights of the World and spend quality time with them. We were able to teach some English to the upper and lower age groups in their classrooms. We had a diva day and brought makeup for the girls and we played games with all the boys. It was such a blessing for ME!

You hear stories about such things but until you are in a classroom teaching and playing games with the children it is different, it becomes real. You start to forget that there is a difference when teaching because they smile, laugh and love the same way as any child without HIV. But when a child runs out the door holding his mouth and vomits due to his medication and being active in the review game your world starts running in slow motion and you have to snap yourself into perspective and continue to teach the rest of the class. To star and stop the class would make the child feel alienated and embarrassed.

The baby room, OH I loved the baby and toddler rooms! You could eat them up, I wanted to take them all with me! But unlike some places, Agape is full of Godly, loving staff from all over the World. They commit 6months to a year, or like one family I met 4 and a half years, to moving to Chang Mai and volunteering as classroom workers and nanny's.
We thought we had met all the babies until the last day we were visiting the nursery. A new tiny baby was there! I asked where he had been and they informed me he had been in the hospital the past week or so extremely ill and was just released. All I wanted to do was rap him in my arms and love on him until I had no more love to give. BUT right then and there I thought to myself, If I want to do that and I do not even know him (Holy Spirit within us causes us to feel and react in certain ways) How much more does GOD his creator, Jesus Christ who died for him want to do that? God’s love is not only unconditional (Agape) but it cannot be compared to any other love on Earth!

Join with me in Prayer for these beautiful souls and lights of the World. That they will have a long, joyous life and the medication will help but that a miracle will do the rest.











Nothing more adorable.